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November 14, 2025<\/span><\/p>\n From Stiff-Necked Stance to Humble Submission<\/strong><\/span> Lee en espa\u00f1ol<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cBut they, our ancestors, became arrogant and stiff-necked, and they did not obey your commands.\u201d Nehemiah 9:16 (NIV)<\/em><\/p>\n Our new dog, a rescue with an unknown history, challenges my patience. The words \u201cgo for a walk\u201d transform her into a bundle of furry energy. She dances while I lace my sneakers and connect her leash. She tugs me to the door as I collect my wallet and keys. But then, as I step toward the car, she hunkers down, splays her front legs, and stiffens her body.<\/p>\n Every time.<\/p>\n It\u2019s a short drive to our favorite walking path, and it\u2019s the high point of her day. But no words of encouragement, no doggie treat, no firm command, can move her willingly toward the open car door. I have to coerce her to get in the car \u2014 it\u2019s the only way to get her where she wants to be.<\/p>\n My dog is a lot like the ancient Israelites. They wanted the good life but not what it took to get there: obedience to God. Hence, they suffered the consequences of defeat and oppression.<\/p>\n As the Israelite Nehemiah once confessed to God, \u201cThey, our ancestors, became arrogant and stiff-necked, and they did not obey your commands\u201d<\/em> (Nehemiah 9:16).<\/p>\n The Hebrew word qashah<\/em>, translated here as \u201cstiff-necked,\u201d<\/em> can also mean \u201cstubborn, rebellious, or strong-willed\u201d \u2014 words I might use to describe my dog\u2019s refusal to jump in the car.<\/p>\n Do these same words describe me? You bet. I\u2019m a lot like my stiff-necked pup.<\/p>\n Years ago, for example, I acquired a workbook with daily assignments to improve my prayer habits. After a few days, I set the workbook on the shelf and tried to ignore it. I knew it would transform my prayer life, but frankly, I didn\u2019t want to change. For six weeks, I refused to go near that shelf. In the end, by God’s grace, humble submission won out. I was changed \u2026 for the better.<\/p>\n But that\u2019s not the only time I\u2019ve resisted obedience. There are friends I should call, but I often lack the patience and compassion to listen to their struggles, so I don\u2019t pick up the phone. God nudges me to add certain folks to my prayer list, yet I\u2019ve refused to write their names because they aren\u2019t people I want to bless and pray for. My strong will sometimes overrides my desire to obey God.<\/p>\n Friends, are you a bit like my dog \u2026 and like me? Are you stiff-necked, resisting God\u2019s commands? Do you want the blessing but without the obedience?<\/p>\n God\u2019s plan is for our good, a lot like my plan to walk the dog. We can resist, but it makes better sense to trust Him instead and experience the joy of submission.<\/p>\n O Lord, forgive my stiff-necked stance, my stubborn refusal to do things Your way. Thank You for waiting patiently and changing my heart, rewarding my humble submission. I know You\u2019re working things for my good. Teach me to trust and obey. In Jesus\u2019 Name, Amen.<\/em><\/p>\n For every broken place, chaotic day, and weary heart, there\u2019s good news: Jesus came so we don\u2019t have to carry it all alone.<\/strong> During busy seasons, the pressure to make everything perfect only adds to the weight of endless to-do lists. If you find yourself longing for peace in this season, More Than a Manger: An Advent Study<\/em><\/strong> is your reminder that peace isn\u2019t found in the absence of chaos \u2014 it\u2019s found in the presence of Christ, who calms every storm.\u00a0<\/strong>Advent begins November 30, so order your study guide today, and let\u2019s make room for Him together.<\/p>\n Through every packed schedule, unmet expectation, and season of transition, God longs for us to remember this truth: He will never leave or forsake us<\/strong>. Whether we\u2019re walking through a valley or standing on a mountaintop, His presence remains constant. If you need a reminder that Jesus is always with you, listen to The\u00a0<\/em>Proverbs 31 Ministries Podcast<\/em>. No matter if you\u2019re in a season of celebration or uncertainty, the Lord is near. All He asks is that you pause, lean in, and allow His Truth to draw you closer to Him<\/strong>. Check out this latest episode, and watch how God\u2019s Truth meets you right where you are.<\/p>\n Read Shirlee\u2019s constructive thoughts and morning prayers on her \u201cSouls Under Construction\u201d website, or follow her on Facebook.<\/p>\n Proverbs 3:5-6, \u201cTrust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight\u201d (NIV).<\/p>\n Looking back, describe a time when you switched from a stiff-necked stance to humble submission to God. How did it work out?<\/p>\n If you\u2019re digging in your heels and resisting God\u2019s direction right now, what steps can you take to change your attitude? Share with us in the comments!<\/p>\n \u00a9 2025 by Shirlee Abbott. All rights reserved.<\/p>\n Proverbs 31 Ministries November 14, 2025 From Stiff-Necked Stance to Humble SubmissionSHIRLEE ABBOTT Lee en espa\u00f1ol \u201cBut they, our ancestors, became arrogant and stiff-necked, and they did not obey your commands.\u201d Nehemiah 9:16 (NIV) Our new dog, a rescue with an unknown history, challenges my patience. 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