{"id":27951,"date":"2026-04-30T11:00:21","date_gmt":"2026-04-30T11:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/biblelon.com\/?p=27951"},"modified":"2026-04-30T11:00:21","modified_gmt":"2026-04-30T11:00:21","slug":"what-to-do-with-a-fractured-friendship-encouragement-for-today-april-30-2026-encouragement-for-today-daily-devotional-from-proverbs-31","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/biblelon.com\/?p=27951","title":{"rendered":"What To Do With a Fractured Friendship –\u00a0Encouragement for Today – April 30, 2026 – Encouragement for Today Daily Devotional from Proverbs 31"},"content":{"rendered":"

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April 30, 2026<\/span><\/p>\n

What To Do With a Fractured Friendship<\/strong><\/span>
KAREN WINGATE<\/span><\/p>\n

Lee en espa\u00f1ol<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u2026 Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you.\u201d Luke 6:27-28 (NKJV)<\/em><\/p>\n

One morning, my written prayer list misplaced, I blurted, Lord, who do You want me to pray for today?<\/em><\/p>\n

I balked at the name that entered my head. My friendship with that person had faded, and I couldn\u2019t pinpoint why.<\/p>\n

I asked the Lord, Should I do something to mend that friendship?<\/em> But the Holy Spirit simply reinforced His prompting for me to pray for her. No matter the status of my friendship with this person, the Lord showed me the best thing I could do was pray. In fact, I would be showing my love and regard for her by asking God to bless her.<\/p>\n

As Jesus said to His disciples, \u201cLove your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you\u201d<\/em> (Luke 6:27-28). If Jesus calls us to pray for our enemies<\/em>, surely I could pray for a friend I wasn’t close to anymore.<\/p>\n

Even when our friendships are marked by dry seasons, tense interactions, or hurtful fractures, God calls us to prayer as a starting point to restoration. Our prayers for a friend may not heal an existing rift, but it shows we value the other person when we bring them before the Father\u2019s throne.<\/p>\n

Why is prayer so important?<\/p>\n

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  1. Prayer is a step of faith. It requires admitting I can\u2019t fix the brokenness, but God can. I trust Him enough to surrender my friend\u2019s life into His capable hands. If I\u2019ve lost contact with the person, I can still show trust by continuing to pray even if I don\u2019t get to witness God\u2019s answers.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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    1. Prayer is an extension of grace. God\u2019s grace is a gift we don\u2019t deserve. If we have suffered from someone\u2019s sinful choices, our human nature wishes they\u2019d get payback for what they did. But when we pray that God bless them, we are asking God to spread His grace over them and us.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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      1. Prayer is an act of forgiveness. Forgiveness is not a feeling but a series of actions. The very act of praying for someone shows we care about their relationship with God and we agree with God that they are worthy of His grace. Our hurt may never fully go away, but it can soften as our prayers produce compassion.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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        1. Prayer is the best kind of love. God\u2019s brand of love always wants the best for another person. It\u2019s willing to keep on loving even if someone has failed to love us. Asking God to be with our friend shows that kind of unconditional dedication.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Prayer has taught me that while God cares deeply about my relationships with others, He cares even more deeply about each of us having a relationship with Him. As I seek to be like Christ, my prayers will show I\u2019m putting my friends’ friendship with Jesus first.<\/p>\n

          Lord, thank\u00a0<\/em>You for the process of prayer that lets me continue to love those with whom I have cracked relationships. Draw them closer to Yourself. I trust You to deepen my relationship with You as well. In Jesus\u2019 Name, Amen.<\/em><\/p>\n

          OUR FAVORITE THINGS<\/h4>\n

          Sometimes the hardest part of faith isn\u2019t believing in Jesus \u2014 it\u2019s knowing how to trust Him when life feels uncertain. When the next step isn\u2019t clear. When your courage feels thin. When you\u2019re doing your best to hold everything together. That\u2019s why the Gospel of Mark is such a powerful place to spend time in God\u2019s Word. In our upcoming First 5 study, Mark: Trusting King Jesus as the One Who Sees You, Saves You, and Never Lets Go<\/em><\/strong>, we\u2019ll encounter Jesus in real moments with real people \u2014 calming storms, restoring the broken, and meeting people whose faith felt fragile. And as you walk through these passages, you may discover something your heart needs to hear right now: You don\u2019t have to hold everything together \u2014 because the King holds you.<\/strong> If you\u2019d like to study alongside us and go deeper into the passages we\u2019ll explore together, you can get the Mark study guide now in the Proverbs 31 Bookstore<\/strong>, where expanded teaching, reflection questions, and guided prayer will help you experience the Gospel of Mark in a whole new way.<\/p>\n

          ENGAGE<\/h4>\n

          Books, blogs, speaking topics, a sign-up for Karen\u2019s weekly newsletter, and a few recipes meant for sharing with those in need \u2014 you\u2019ll find all this and more on Karen\u2019s website. You can also find Karen on Facebook and Instagram.<\/p>\n

          FOR DEEPER STUDY<\/h4>\n

          Ephesians 6:18, \u201cAnd pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord\u2019s people\u201d (NIV).<\/p>\n

          Whose name is on your heart today \u2014 whether friend or enemy, national leader, ministry worker, or beloved family member? Pause right now, and ask God to bless and encourage that person today. We\u2019d also love to pray with you in the comments!<\/p>\n

          \u00a9 2026 by Karen Wingate. All rights reserved.<\/p>\n

          Proverbs 31 Ministries
          P.O. Box 3189
          Matthews, NC 28106
          www.Proverbs31.org<\/strong><\/p>\n