My grandparents went to high school together, but there was a big enough age gap that kept their paths from crossing much. However, my grandfather learned that my grandmother’s father owned a local diner, where she worked. Not only did he become a faithful patron, but he also made sure to always sit in the section where she waitressed. Eventually, he left his phone number on a gum wrapper that he not-so-discreetly placed on the diner table, and it paid off.
They dated for roughly four years, he proposed to her on her front porch swing, and they were married on a beautiful day in May. They traveled the country together, had two children, and started a construction business. There were countless beautiful memories nestled in their forty-plus years of marriage.
But for many, the sweet memories are soured when death steals their life partner. To revisit the good times leaves room for bitterness, as you must always pull yourself to the present, to an empty rocking chair, dining room seat, or driver’s seat in the car.
So if bitterness threatens to ruin your sweet past memories, pray:
Lord, I praise you for the gift of life, for granting me the grace to spend ____ time with my life partner. Deep down, I’m grateful for all the sweet memories we created, but to revisit them leaves me sad, even angry and bitter. Father, uproot the bitterness in my heart. Allow me to take a trip down memory lane with a true smile on my face.
As I relentlessly practice gratitude, may I be thankful for what was, even if it can’t be what is anymore. I praise you for your gift of time, no matter how much or how little. In this new season, may I trust your timing and plan for my life. In your holy name, Jesus, Amen.
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